Ask Not What The Church Can Do For You

Neal Pollard

On January 20, 1961, John F. Kennedy gave his inaugural address as president of the United States.  In it, he ends with these famous words: “Ask not what your country can do for you – ask what you can do for your country. My fellow citizens of the world: ask not what America will do for you, but what together we can do for the freedom of man.”  What a great challenge to a nation, for each citizen to see his or her responsibility and place and to center on service rather than self-service.

What about the church?  What should our disposition be?  Should we take the tack of entitlement or encouragement?  Could we not borrow a page from the late president’s playbook and reframe the question?

Ask not, “What is the church doing for me?”  Ask, “What can I do for the church?”

Ask not, “Why aren’t you serving me?” Ask, “How can I serve you?”

Ask not, “What are you doing?” Ask, “What can I do?”

Ask not, “Why aren’t you better/more?” Ask, “Where can I improve?”

Ask not, “Why aren’t you?” Ask, “Why am I not?”

May we never fall into the trap of setting up a double standard, especially if we expect of others more than we can or are willing to produce ourselves.  The old folks would call that “sweeping around your own front door.”  Jesus said it this way, “Do not judge so that you will not be judged. For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ and behold, the log is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye” (Mat. 7:1-5).

This is an oft-abused passage, but surely its application here is unmistakable. Let us recognize each other as fellow-strugglers, but also fellow-servants.  None of us have been called to walk the red carpet, but rather to use the servant’s towel.  We have been called to serve, not be served (cf. Mat. 20:28).

Kindness, But Not So Random

Neal Pollard

Bennet Cerf tells the story of something he witnessed on a bus ride somewhere in the south.  ”In one seat a wispy old man sat holding a bunch of fresh flowers. Across the aisle was a young girl whose eyes came back again and again to the man’s flowers. The time came for the old man to get off. Impulsively he thrust the flowers into the girl’s lap. “I can see you love the flowers,” he explained, “and I think my wife would like for you to have them. I’ll tell her I gave them to
you.” The girl accepted the flowers, then watched the old man get off the bus and walk through the gate of a small cemetery.”

Have you ever done a “random act of kindness”?  Or, have you been the recipient of someone else’s kindness?  Maybe someone bought your meal at a restaurant, paid you an unsolicited, unexpected compliment, or helped you with your luggage or packages.  These acts can be the fuel that lift your spirits so high.

May I suggest that kindness is not as random as it is a deliberate practice.  The specific impulse of the moment might be without much forethought, but kindness is born of a generous, unselfish heart that is conditioned by love and occasioned by opportunity.  The fact is that much more kindness is needed in our selfish world.  Instead of waiting for others to lead the way, we need to initiate words and deeds of kindness wherever we are whenever we can.  Few things can show Christ to people better than kindness.  Paul urges, “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted…” (Eph. 4:32).  God’s bond-servant must not be quarrelsome, “but kind to all” (2 Tim. 2:24).  Somebody out there is a potential recipient of your unexpected kindness!  Why not perpetrate a not-so-random act of kindness!